tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-63144281887834041512024-03-13T20:30:43.712+00:00Birdy BeginsTravel, style, things that make you go hmm...Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.comBlogger91125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-83893380306824451762015-01-24T08:45:00.000+00:002015-01-24T08:45:23.679+00:00To be honest... dawn on a SaturdayI have several half-written posts waiting to be polished and published but to be honest, I'm not in a great place right now.<br />
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I've woken up early the last two days, tired but with my brain going full speed so I can't get the sleep I need. <br />
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I'm tense and achey. I'm starting to comfort-eat. I feel somewhat overwhelmed. <br />
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I'm resting as much as possible in evenings and weekends but it's not enough to get me back to some sort of equalibrium. <br />
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I'll leave you with with pic which kind of sums things up...<br />
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<br />Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-15270961150122576932015-01-13T21:18:00.000+00:002015-01-13T21:24:28.029+00:00Exploring Bristol - hidden treasures<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-SEJmZEclOzA/VLWBwt9GfeI/AAAAAAAAA0Y/nbXc1K9-MGc/s1600/Avon%2Bgorge%2Bpostcard.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-SEJmZEclOzA/VLWBwt9GfeI/AAAAAAAAA0Y/nbXc1K9-MGc/s1600/Avon%2Bgorge%2Bpostcard.jpg" height="255" width="400" /></a>Oh, the bliss of a quiet January! I am just loving staying home, eating vegetables, staying off alcahol (mostly) and getting a bit more exercise. We had a lovely quiet weekend.<br />
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On Sunday afternoon we headed off walking along the stunning <a href="http://www.riveravontrail.org.uk/" target="_blank">Avon Gorge path</a> toward the village of Pill. (Yes, there's a place called 'Pill'. Don't ask me why!)<br />
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I've been along that path several times. It starts off in some slightly rough-looking areas with derilect old industrial buildings, bridges and lots of grafitti but soon gets onto a pretty river-side walk.<br />
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(See <a href="https://andrewpwithers.wordpress.com/2011/10/16/saturday-walk/" target="_blank">Andrew Withers' blog</a> for more photos like the one here.)<br />
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It then passes by the <a href="https://www.avonandsomerset.police.uk/newsroom/features/meet-the-horses/" target="_blank">Avon and Somerset mounted police base</a>. I love police horses so I had a friendly chat through the fence to a couple of completely un-interested horsies. <br />
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After trekking along the slightly muddy path for a while, I was surprised to discover an entry to <a href="http://www.nationaltrust.org.uk/leigh-woods/" target="_blank">Leigh Woods. </a><br />
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I'd only ever strayed briefly into Leigh Woods from the top near the Clifton Suspension Bridge. I had no idea it was so extensive. There are miles and miles of paths all up and down along beside the river Avon.<br />
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The path up from the riverside was super-pretty but quite steep and very muddy. We sloshed up for about 15 minutes then gave up, promising to come back in dryer weather.<br />
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So now I'm looking forward to lots more walking up and down and around the lovely woodlands in the months to come. What a treat to discover all that nearly on our doorstep! Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-11896393597336312322015-01-01T12:16:00.000+00:002015-01-01T12:16:00.174+00:00Top travel destinations of the last year<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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So I worked out that during 2014 I managed to go to nine countries (including England where I live). In order, I went to:<br />
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<a href="http://birdybegins.blogspot.co.uk/2014/03/the-best-things-to-do-in-singapore.html" target="_blank">Singapore</a><br />
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<a href="http://birdybegins.blogspot.co.uk/2014/08/one-woman-diplomatic-tour-dublin.html" target="_blank">The Republic of Ireland</a> <br />
<a href="http://birdybegins.blogspot.co.uk/2014/08/one-woman-diplomatic-tour-northern.html" target="_blank">Northern Ireland</a><br />
Wales (several times as it's just over the bridge from Bristol)<br />
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That's pretty good going, I think. Of that list <b>Italy, Northern Ireland, the Republic of Ireland</b> and <b>Hungary</b> were new to me. <br />
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<b>Singapore</b> is a perennial favourite. If only it were closer, I'd probably make an annual pilgrimage, I love it so much. I'd just love to be basking in the warmth and swimming in a hotel pool right now!<br />
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<b>Budapest</b> is a new favourite - I expect we'll be back there at some point to have a better look around. Possibly in Spring for a change.<br />
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I love<b> Scotland</b> with my heart and will be back there whenever I can make an excuse. I'm still keen on seeing the real Shetland ponies and exploring some remote whiskey distilleries in the north. <br />
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So what about travel for next year? Well, we're off to Bruge and Ghent in <b>Belgium</b> for a few days just after New Year's. I've been to (and loved) Bruge and am looking forward to Ghent.<br />
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Easter will probably be somewhere a bit warmer and sunnier like <b>Spain</b> or <b>Portugal</b>. We loved Alicante in Spain so are keen to see some more of that country. <br />
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Due to getting my visa renewed, I'll probably be grounded for months during the middle of the year so summer holidays might need to be a road trip around Scotland. What a shame! (Kidding!).<br />
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Just clicking on the EasyJet 'where do we fly' tool opens up a world of possibility (literally). There's Greece, Croatia, Iceland and we need to get to Prague at some point... I guess we'll see how things go.<br />
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Happy travels to you!Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-61835872855275845292014-12-30T09:00:00.000+00:002014-12-30T09:00:05.164+00:00Solutions for the New Year's outfit challenge<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">
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The lead-up to Christmas tends to feel like a race. I galloped and galloped and made it past the post with no major disasters but of course, now I have a cold.<br />
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Do you do this? Get sick as soon as the pressure's off? I can pretty much set my clock by it. So here I am in the lull between Christmas and normal life... in bed, drugged up, blowing my nose... Oh well, at least it's forcing me to rest. I guess that's the point.<br />
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It's also quite nice to have some fallow time to acknowledge the change of season. All the frantic Christmas festivity is over. All five advent candles have been lit and been snuffed. Winter solstice has been. We're now into proper winter (it's suddenly gotten colder) with the creep towards spring, more daylight, a few hardly bulbs peeking through the soil and the bloom into full summer. <br />
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I have a massive list of chores that I could be doing on in my few days off, but I'm not able to do any of them.<br />
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Hopefully tomorrow I'll be up to mattress shopping as our landlord's mattress has really given up the ghost. We got Christmas money to go towards a new mattress and we're itching to spend it. It will be lovely to have a comfy bed.<br />
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I'm also looking forward to be healthy enough to get on the wagon of eating nothing but vegetables and taking a daily run. Well, I exaggerate somewhat, but I am a big blob at the moment and need to indulge in the traditional January masochism. Soon, my pretty, pretty...<br />
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Right, now I think I'll go back to my book. Bye!<br />
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<br />Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-89155108121490455462014-12-15T21:29:00.000+00:002014-12-15T21:29:43.085+00:00Winter weekend adventuresAh, the last weekend of sanity before Christmas... We very deliberately kept it low key and thusly had a lovely weekend. Highlights?<br />
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There is a market that pops up near our house every few months. This weekend was a particularly big one and there was a lovely singer doing her own take on a range of songs from folk songs to carols and 90's pop songs. We had lunch with a friend and snapped up some local 'Wife of Bath' cheese to take for Christmas. We also got some handmade pies (chicken, bacon and leek) and some locally roasted and ground coffee. I'd been stalking a lovely statement necklace with fuschia and emerald green beads on a brass chain so I *suggested* to my husband that it'd make a good Christmas present. <br />
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Our normal church was having a kids service so we popped into the cathedral. It's so <i>festive!</i> The choir in robes and ruffs, lighting the advent candle, 10 foot Christmas trees up the front. The only thing I kind of wish they did was incense, but they're not as 'high church' as that. <br />
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We thought we'd have another go at actually finding the castle in this large local park. We spent a couple of hours walking about there in summer and managed to totally miss the castle.<br />
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They were built for pensioners of the Harford family who owned the estate. Imagine being so rich that the housing for your aged servants is designed by a famous architect! (John Nash, in case you're interested). They're all owned by The National Trust now but are still lived in by a few very lucky people. <br />
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On our way back to the car we stopped in at the cafe and got pulled (not at all reluctantly) into a lovely carol sing-a-long. There was quite a competant pianist and a group of about 15 from (I found out later) the local church. I had great fun doing the descants on the final verse of carols like "Once in Royal David's City" and doing the male king/ female page thing in "Good King Wenceslas".<br />
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Then we mulled lots of cider and ate the pies from the market for dinner with lots of gravy and steamed veg.<br />
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What did you do in the weekend? Nice festive things or are you just feeling frazzled?Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-60693240010883393002014-12-10T21:25:00.001+00:002014-12-10T21:25:11.175+00:00The pleasures of hibernationBrrr... baby it's cold outside! I'm deeply hunkered down into the couch, furry slippers on my feet. I walked home in the dark with a cold wind blowing through my hair and making my ears ache. It's hibernation time.<br />
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I'd never had mulled cider until I moved to Bristol (the South-West of England is a big cider region). I recommend you give it a go as it's delicious! <br />
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Now it's gotten properly cold I can wear a jumper or cardigan to work all day and not get too hot. Often I'm in a scarf most of the day too. Gloves are a necessity for walking outside and I'm back to being grateful for my warm wool and cashmere duffle coat. <br />
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There are many lovely festive things about December but robins are one of my favourite. They <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=byd8S-pjJOI" target="_blank">sing beautifully</a>, they're unshakably perky and cute, they're quite tame and common enough that you're likely to see them regularly. <br />
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So, I'm enjoying a nice quiet week at home after all my gallivanting. What about you - are you hibernating or running around like a mad thing? Or is it summer where you are? Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-68707553178440512942014-12-08T21:09:00.000+00:002014-12-08T21:09:41.194+00:00How to do work good (and pretty pics)So I'm back home now, after a whole week away in a couple of different places for work. It's been a huge week, but a helpful one. I thought I'd mull over what I've learned in case it's helpful for you in your work or personal life.<br />
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<i>(Also, I'm popping in pics of Alex Skarsgard 'cos he's lush. Far more interesting than stock photos of people in suits shaking hands.) </i><br />
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We did a big conference for one part of our organisation. Again and again people were saying how great it was to 'put a face to a name' and how they felt comfortable referring clients to each now that they had met the person they would be referring to. <br />
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We try very hard to be connected using things like email, online messaging, teleconferencing or video conferencing, but this week reaffirmed the vital importance of meeting in person.<br />
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Another part of my week was a big team meeting which involved some input from a personality test company. Now, you may know that the concept of personality 'types' has been largely dismissed by psychology as it is not supported by research. Putting people into one of a few personality 'types' isn't much more valid than describing people using their star sign. Many psychologists even take issue with the idea of personality traits (though the majority agree on the '<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Five_personality_traits" target="_blank">Big Five</a>' model).<br />
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This hasn't stopped enterprising people setting up businesses selling bespoke personality tests to businesses. The output of these tests can easily be harmful if used incorrectly, for example as the main factor in recruiting staff.<br />
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HOWEVER given all those disclaimers, I think it is really useful to put aside time to have open discussions about what we're really like as people and how we like to be treated.<br />
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We are a very new team so it was helpful to have time together to start to get to know each other and to reflect on ourselves. I have already spent a considerable amount of time working on my self-awareness but I did actually gain some more insights through this experience. <br />
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I've known since my teens that I'm naturally a very full-on, direct person. And that almost everyone else finds that overpowering and unpleasant, especially in a woman. I've been working all the time to soften myself down, to be more gentle, slower, more collaborative, give others time to speak etc. The message from a lot of quarters has been 'Who you are is wrong'. <br />
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Still, we did a series of challenges as part of a team building exercise. Our team won. A biggish part of that was me quickly coming up with ideas, nudging others into action and keeping on task. I think I managed to do this while giving others a chance to contribute and without being domineering. So, maybe being a strong natural leader has its uses.<br />
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So, did you enjoy the Alex pics? Any other thoughts? Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-20462479419875838002014-11-28T09:00:00.000+00:002014-11-28T09:00:05.371+00:00Stressed? Give thanks!So for some reason, the vast majority of my readers are from America. It's a bit odd 'cos I'm a New Zealander by birth and living (and writing about) in England but I really appreciate you guys! <br />
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Anyway, as you probably realise, we don't have Thanksgiving here. This is just an ordinary week in late Autumn.<br />
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For me, this has been a really tough week. Lots of angst at work, lots of people getting heated, lots of difficulties to negotiate and unmanageably huge amounts of work to do. So, as well as sweating it out at the gym every day (impressive, eh?), I thought it would be a good idea to practise gratitude. <br />
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<strong>What are the benefits of gratitude?</strong><br />
"More than any other personality trait, gratitude is strongly linked to
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Not only is gratitude a warm and uplifting way to feel, it benefits
the body as well. People who experience gratitude cope better with
stress, recover more quickly from illness, and enjoy more robust
physical health, including lower blood pressure and better immune
function." <a href="http://ei.yale.edu/what-is-gratitude/">http://ei.yale.edu/what-is-gratitude/</a><br />
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Good enough for me! So, to get on with the gratitude, I am thankful for:<br />
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<b>The beauty of Bristol, of England, of autumn, of the wildlife. </b><br />
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I still appreciate walking through the park with the streetlights shining through the mist, large plane-tree leaves on the ground, golden leaves on the branches above, quaint cobbled streets and the amazingly beautiful St Mary Redcliffe church lit up to show off its sculptures. <br />
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We have adorable blue tits in the tree outside our kitchen window. I regularly see red kites, buzzards and other raptors on my way to work.<br />
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<b> My lovely husband</b><br />
Not to get too soppy on you, but we've been married nearly 14 years and together for over half our lives. He is (to coin a cliche) my rock, my best friend and is generally a good person to have around.<br />
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<b>How much I have managed to learn about doing my job</b><br />
I did a short project management course this week and I found it rather affirming. It was really nice to see that I did actually know how to use all the tools and also some of the traps that you can fall into.<br />
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We've also had a bunch of new people at work and again, it has shown up how much I have actually managed to learn. I've still got the rest of my career to keep learning, but it's comforting to see that after about 15 years of work, I have managed to gain some skills. <br />
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As much as I'd like not to be the size of a house, I do love my food. I'm grateful for good coffee in the morning (using our <a href="http://www.aeropress.co.uk/" target="_blank">aeropress</a> - it's delicious, try it!) and nice wine at night. I'm grateful for the cafe down the road from work which makes good quality food for reasonable prices. I nipped out for a very late lunch today and got a mix of Greek salad and pasta salad and a chocolate brownie for under £5.<br />
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So, happy Thanksgiving one and all and remember to regularly practise gratitude. You can start by telling me one thing you're grateful for, if you like. Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-56636186741449574302014-11-25T22:57:00.002+00:002014-11-25T22:57:07.556+00:00Column dressing and working with what you've got<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">
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<small> <span style="font-size: small;">I came across the concept of 'column dressing' in <a href="http://www.bridgetteraes.com/" target="_blank">Bridgette Rae's</a> blog recently. The idea is that you create a 'column' of a single neutral colour then add a pop of complimentary or contrasting colour over the top. </span></small></div>
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<small><span style="font-size: small;">What do you think about this column dressing idea? Helpful, interesting or too dull? </span></small></div>
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Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-50809805791553897762014-11-20T21:37:00.002+00:002014-11-20T21:37:45.620+00:00A concealer that's as good as a night's sleep!So tomorrow morning I have to get up around 5:30am. Not looking forward it!<br />
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As well as occasional lack of sleep, I also inherited a propesity to dark circles under my eyes. So, I've been a keen fan of concealer since my teens. I've tried various brands and styles from the cheap but effective <a href="http://uk.rimmellondon.com/products/face/wake-me-up-concealer" target="_blank">Rimmel Wake Me Up Concealer</a> to<a href="http://www.selfridges.com/en/yves-saint-laurent-concealer_456-84033258-CONCEALER/?previewAttribute=Ivory+beige&cm_mmc=PLA-_-Google-_-Beauty-_-YVESSAINTLAURENT&ci_src=18615224&ci_sku=9450981&$$ja=cgid:10881871534|tsid:35948|cid:198779374|lid:74777384734|nw:g|crid:40370635054|rnd:12843802092006536951|dvc:c|adp:1o4&gclid=CjwKEAiAv7ajBRCIldS7rp7wzFkSJAAA1n4DX36Il8G-WeySOMLKNePmLqearSgYYR11r7zMCqeIkhoCzTDw_wcB" target="_blank">Yves Saint Laurent</a> and <a href="http://www.esteelauder.co.uk/product/642/17443/Product-Catalog/Makeup/Face/Concealers/Double-Wear/Stay-In-Place-Flawless-Wear-Concealer-SPF-10/index.tmpl" target="_blank">Estee Lauder's Double Wear</a>.<br />
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<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-yPJ61u4oQ0s/VG5deMNYERI/AAAAAAAAAxM/gXlzMBPbAQ8/s1600/Clinique%2BAirbrush.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-yPJ61u4oQ0s/VG5deMNYERI/AAAAAAAAAxM/gXlzMBPbAQ8/s1600/Clinique%2BAirbrush.png" height="320" width="277" /></a>On our recent trip to Budapest, we ended up with a fair bit of the local currency to get rid of. Lovely husband suggested a trip to Duty Free. I deliberated for ages and eventually snapped up Clinique's Airbrush Concealer. Gosh, I'm glad I did! Somehow a few light brush strokes magically make my black circles vanish into a soft radiant skin colour.<br />
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I was a bit worried that it wouldn't provide enough coverage and stay on all day, but it's fine on blemish scars and it lasts well on my sometimes oily skin. <br />
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Clinique isn't infallible (some of their skin care is useless) but I have found some absolute treats in the make-up. <br />
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Sadly the Airbrush Concealer only comes in a few very light shades, but if it'll suit your skin, I say get your mitts on some! Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-82676325794308532492014-11-15T12:04:00.001+00:002014-11-15T12:04:30.377+00:00Dos and Don'ts of BudapestSo we popped off to Budapest for a long weekend recently. My thoughts about the place can be filed under 'Do' and 'Don't'. I'll start with the 'Don'ts' to get them out of the way.<br />
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Go to the Cave Church. It's (as the name suggests) a Catholic church founded by Pauline monks in 1926, set in a small network of caves. Unfortunately it's totally devoid of atmosphere as all the caves have been sprayed with concrete, had floors put in and decorated with flowers and statues.<br />
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Give yourself less than three days in Budapest. Five days would be ideal, to allow for side trips. There is so much to see and do. With the way our flights worked out, we only ended up with two days and it just wasn't enough.<br />
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<b> </b>This one is a bit of a qualified suggestion... The baths at the Gellèrt Hotel are famous and on the recommended list for a visit to Budapest BUT... I found the experience before and after actually being in the hot water quite stressful. It was really quite expensive and hard to work out what kind of ticket we actually needed. We didn't notice until we were actually in there that we needed to buy a swimming cap to go in the inside pool. We snuck in without one and we got away with it.<br />
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The place is a labyrinth! So difficult to find your way around, it's not funny. I couldn't find a ladies loo for the life of me, and there were only two hairdryers (significant in a cold climate as you don't want to go out with wet hair).<br />
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The hotel looked a bit like it was leaning on its fading grandeur, with tacky stalls in the foyer. The main outdoor pool was closed for winter, which was a bit sad. <br />
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Bother with the main shopping street Váci utca and Central Market Hall. They are complete tourist traps, complete with acres of similar souveniers, people calling out to you to come and see their shops or eat at their overpriced restaurants. If you wanted to buy food i.e. fruit, vegetables, cheese, spirits including local liquers, meat including lots of sausages and salamis, then the Central Market Hall is probably a decent proposition, but we weren't there long enough to do any cooking. <br />
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Worry about not being able to speak any Hungarian. We looked at a phrase book and gave up on even being able to say hello. Not to worry, everyone kindly spoke English. <br />
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Go to Budpest, especially in autumn. It's such a pretty city and it was made even prettier by the autumn leaves and mist. Evidently it gets crazy-hot and full of tourists in summer. The only slight suggestion would be to maybe go in September so that some things wouldn't be closed for winter and the days would be longer. It did get dark very early (like around 4:30pm).Or try going in spring as I'm sure that would be very pretty too.<br />
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Decide what you want to do and book early. We missed
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Walk over as many of the bridges across the Danube as possible. <b> </b>The views along the riverbanks are stunning, either by day or by night. The parliament buildings are particularly pretty.<br />
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Walk up Castle Hill (or take the funicular railway - sadly it was undergoing maintainance while we were there) and spend a day. The views are amazing, the architecture spectacular, <a href="http://visitbudapest.travel/guide/budapest-attractions/matthias-church/" target="_blank">Matthias Church</a> is one of the prettiest churches I've ever seen. We also did a whistle-stop tour of the <a href="http://www.lonelyplanet.com/hungary/budapest/sights/castles-palaces-mansions/royal-palace" target="_blank">Hungarian National Gallery</a> which had a lovely collection of art, from ancient elaborate church decorations to a spooky modern installation in the dome. Sadly we didn't have time for the other museum in the old Palace. We'll have to go back at some point as there's just so much to see!<br />
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Eat like a pig! The traditional food is hearty, rich and filling to help keep out the winter cold (and also reasonably priced). We had delicious paprika spiced sausages, lots of mulled wine, goulash (of course), soups like the kosher pea soup in the picture, rich desserts with honey and cream... mmm... makes me hungry just thinking about it! We enjoyed the good service and amazing food at the <a href="http://www.tripadvisor.co.uk/Restaurant_Review-g274887-d2166631-Reviews-Drum_Cafe-Budapest_Central_Hungary.html" target="_blank">Drum Cafe</a>.<br />
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So, in summary, Budapest is awesome! I'm definitely planning to go back at some point and catch up with some of the things we missed. It's also handily close to other places I'd love to visit such as the Croatian coast and Austria. <br />
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So it was my boofday again recently. (I know, again! It seems to come around quicker every year!). Unlike most years, I don't have a list of smaller bits to show you and make you jealous. My big treat this year is a new engagement ring.<br />
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A new engagement ring? But haven't you been married for years, you ask? Well, yes I have, but I very sadly lost the diamond from my engagement ring earlier this year. (Note to self: make sure settings are checked by a jeweller every year).<br />
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I debated for ages about whether to get a new ring or replace the diamond. Lots of research and searching led me decide on a new ring and eventually to find 'the one'. It's a lovely mid-blue round sapphire surrounded by diamonds to make a flower-like pattern. Lucky me!<br />
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I also feel really blessed in my friends and family. I had a lovely day beginning and ending with phone calls from family, punctuated by lunch with my lovely husband and dinner with a group of friends in the evening.<br />
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There's a Maori proverb which I really identify with:<br />
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He aha te mea nui o te ao?<br />
He tangata! He tangata! He tangata!<br />
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<b>What is the most important thing in the world? </b><br />
<b>It is people! It is people! It is people! </b><br /><br />Jewels (and presents generally) are lovely, but the best thing is the feeling that people care and are thinking of me. I know that sounds a bit pious and trust me, I do love presents! Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-39485698669298710882014-10-29T18:00:00.000+00:002014-10-30T21:12:33.476+00:00Castles and Abbeys - Scotland in Autumn<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Last week I had to pop up to Angus in Scotland for work. I happened to see that Glamis Castle was nearby so thought I'd take an extra day and look around.<br />
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I chose Arbroath as a place to stay pretty much at random. I didn't realise that the lovely ruined <a href="http://www.historic-scotland.gov.uk/propertyresults/propertyoverview.htm?PropID=PL_013" target="_blank">Arbroath Abbey</a> was quite so significant in Scottish history.<br />
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In 1320, the Declaration of Arbroath was written (probably) by the Abbot of Arbroath Abbey and sent to the Pope to entreat him to recognise Scotland as an independent country. In those days the Pope was the top international authority in the western world.<br />
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The declaration includes the moving words, "… it is in truth not for glory, nor riches, nor honours that we are fighting, but for freedom – for that alone, which no honest man gives up but with life itself." <br />
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In the 1950s four students stole the Stone of Scone from Westminster Abbey (where the English had rather provocatively stored it <b>under</b> the seat of the throne), they brought it to Arbroath Abbey and left it there, wrapped in the Scottish flag.<br />
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The abbot's house is still intact as it had been used as various things over the years including a school and a factory. The fan vaults above are from the undercroft under the house. <br />
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While I was there, a small school group came for a visit. They got dressed in little monk's robes and had a guide in a robe showing them over the place and telling stories. So there were cute mini-monks shadowing me around during my visit, adding to the atmosphere. <br />
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The grounds around the abbey had been the town graveyard for years. Very atmospheric, especially on a grey day.<br />
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After a couple of pleasant hours at Arbroath Abbey I took the pretty drive over to Glamis. I was mostly interested in Glamis Castle because I recognised the name from Shakespeare's "Macbeth". However Glamis Castle is nothing like the blasted ruin that I expected from seeing the play. It's been a plush country escape for very rich people for centuries.<br />
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The building started in the 1300s as a hunting lodge. The fairytale castle look was achieved in the late 1700s and early 1800s. Most of the outside of the building and grounds have barely changed since then.<br />
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The Strathmore family still live part-time in the castle and they also do a roaring trade as a venue for weddings and corporate hospitality.<br />
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The castle is made of the reddish local stone - you can see it's the same stuff as Arbroath Abbey. <br />
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We had an expert and friendly tour guide take us around 10 rooms inside, but photos weren't allowed so I can't show you details.<br />
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They were very grand rooms with all sorts of interesting curiosities. One of my favourite things were the embroidered bed hangings that took 14 years for the lady of the house to complete. They were made in the 1600s and are still in pretty good nick today. There was incredible detail and creativity in all the different animals, plants and decorations she embroidered. <br />
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I do have to mention that Glamis Castle is the late Queen Mother's childhood home - there were lots of interesting royal connections and stories.<br />
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Beautiful autumn views from the bridge heading into the walled garden. <br />
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A touch of autumn colour in the trees. I saw signs warning me to be careful driving because there might be a red squirrel on the road, but of course I saw no sign of squirrels.<br />
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Cute Highland Cows grazing in a field behind the car park.<br />
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Cornflowers outside the walled garden - there were two large banks of mingled cornflowers and dandelions.<br />
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The Italian garden - a view from under one of the two aisles of overhanging trees. There were roses in the beds but they weren't at their best in autumn, of course. <br />
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They have been working for the past couple of years on restoring the walled garden. It's a huge space - it seemed to cover about an acre. They have planted lots of roses which will make it an ideal wedding venue when they're a bit more mature. <br />
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There are three big amazing castles within a short drive around that part of the country (and it's only about an hour and a half north of Edinburgh). I'm definitely going back for another look around as the countryside is stunning and I do love a good castle!Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-12703120061566133902014-10-24T23:10:00.000+01:002014-10-24T23:10:10.650+01:00Communal cats<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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In our small flat, we're not allowed to keep a pet. We love cats, so we make up for our lack of cat by borrowing some of the many neighbourhood moggies.<br />
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There are four small black cats locally. This pic is one of the two who are brother and sister. We call them 'The Invisible Tabby' and 'The Invisible Tabby's Brother' because in sunlight they have subtle tabby markings. <br />
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Then we have another brother and sister pair - Earl and Assam. They have name tags and we approve of their names (named after types of tea) so they've stayed with their given names.<br />
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Earl is quite a lot smaller than Assam. They're both nice-natured animals who like cuddles and bits of string. I suspect they're Burmese.<br />
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This handsome ginger fellow we named 'Weasley' after the red-headed family in the Harry Potter books. We saw him a bit as a kitten but haven't seen him much since then. In fact this might be the only time he's been in. Either he's indoors a lot or just doesn't hang around near our flat.<br />
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We call this cat 'Fluffybum' because she's "so fluffy I could die!" and also she seems to suit a silly name.<br />
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She's a sweet little thing - very light and tiny under all that fur. She was being badly neglected by her divorcing family and is a bit skittish (though also affectionate and very playful). She has had a happy ending in that another local couple have adopted her. Now she is always beautifully groomed and looking healthy.<br />
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Another couple of gratuitous pics of Earl. This is last year when she battled and eventually defeated our Christmas tree. There wasn't anything delicate on the tree so we let her get on with it. (In spite of Earl being a male name, we think she's female cos she's so tiny).<br />
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A slightly younger Earl enjoying some strokes on the windowsill.<br />
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This cat we call 'Skinnytail'. It's a nasty creature, prone to chasing birds, fighting other cats and attacking the hand that feeds it cat treats.<br />
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This one might just be my favourite. We named him 'Cat Treats' because that's what we call to summon him. Also, he's so lovely and smoochy he's a treat for us. He has been known to roll around on the bed and nuzzle my nose with his nose. So sweet!<br />
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He's a Norwegian Forest cat with a big ruff and a foofy tail. His owners don't brush him enough so he gets matted fur. We occasionally have a go at snipping out the worst tangles. He's very trusting and quite happy to be groomed.<br />
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So, that's most of our neighbourhood cats. We are very lucky that we get visits to cheer us in our catless state.<br />
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Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-48102063067701361402014-10-17T07:00:00.000+01:002014-10-17T07:00:02.226+01:00One pair of pants, three days<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">
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<small><span style="font-size: small;">So this week I suddenly found I had to stay away from home for a couple of nights. I commuted for my work on Tuesday morning but the traffic (and weather) was so damn bad that I thought I'd rather stay in the area rather than have to face it again. Of course I hadn't packed, so what to do about clothes for work? </span></small></div>
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<small><span style="font-size: small;">I happened to be wearing the first outfit on the left - one of those excellent shirts from Oasis <a href="http://birdybegins.blogspot.co.uk/2014/09/the-great-top-dilemma.html" target="_blank">as mentioned previously</a>, leopard heels and a gold-toned necklace from Accesorize. I also had on my new pants (or trousers for the English) from Laura Ashley. I have to say that they stood up brilliantly to three days of hard use! </span></small></div>
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<small><span style="font-size: small;">I popped out to Next UK after work ('cos their shop happened to be on the way to where I was staying) and after a bit of hunting and trying on, I found these two tops. They were both quite cheap and I think I'll get plenty of wear out of them. </span></small></div>
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<small><span style="font-size: small;">I have been wanting another beige cardigan after I left my old one in Belfast so I was pleased to get this one. It's got a bit of a fabric detail on the lapel which gives it a touch of something more interesting. Also, it's a nice light beige colour. I have to be very careful with beige to get the right tone to suit - yellowy tones look hideous on me!</span></small></div>
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<small><span style="font-size: small;">I also got the dark blue boat-neck top. The picture shows it being rather loose but I sized down to get a snug fit. The colour suits me and I like the buttons at either side of the neck. </span></small></div>
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<small><span style="font-size: small;">So, with a few toiletries and some cheap underwear, I was set for a couple more days at work. Not the most exciting outfits, but I was pleased with my improvisation. </span> </small></div>
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Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-72633414214965855302014-10-15T09:30:00.000+01:002014-10-16T19:37:05.586+01:00English things - faff, spiders and paving stonesI've been noticing a few things about living in England recently that I just wouldn't have known about until I moved here. As a public service I'm warning you about them... <br />
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<b>Faff </b><br />
In case you're not sure, to faff basically means 'fuss, flap, bother,' etc. It can be a verb or a noun i.e. "We can't faff around forever" or "There was the usual faff of getting through airport security". You can also be faffing about.<br />
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Let me warn you - there is a reason that this is a particularly English word. The flip-side of the beautifully polite and orderly queueing is a notable inefficiency. For example, even large chain cafes tend to have all their staff doing everything at once i.e. making coffee, taking orders, clearing tables (or not clearing them as the case may be). This is vastly slower than the practise in New Zealand of having a dedicated barista and someone else operating the till. I think the general tolerance of crowds and queues leads to less pressure to keep things moving. <br />
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<b>Autumn Spiders</b><br />
I'm not going to give you a picture of this one! I'm fairly arachnophobic and I've been horrified to discover that it's an actual thing where every autumn large spiders suddenly start coming inside looking for a mate! This never happened in New Zealand (or least spiders came in every so often, but not en masse in one season). So far I've had two in bed at different times, including one crawling through my hair. NOT ON!<b> </b><br />
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<b>Trick paving stones</b><br />
Here's another good autumn/winter tip - beware of the trick paving stones! English footpaths are covered in all sorts of things from old cobblestones to stone blocks, pavers, concrete or asphalt. If you've got paving underfoot and it's been raining recently, do step carefully. What can happen (and it's happened to me) is that a loose paver gathers a little reservoir of muddy water. When the time is right (i.e. when you step on it), the paver gushes filthy water over your shoes, up your legs and possibly even manages to splash your coat. This will comprehensively ruin your day. <br />
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So, just a few handy tips if you're thinking of emigrating or visiting. Are you going to adopt the word 'faff' now? (Try it, it's fun!). Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-17179405947730239302014-10-10T22:36:00.000+01:002014-10-10T22:36:33.681+01:00Craving wine for autumn - burgundy, merlot, sangria, claret<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">
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<small> <br /><span style="font-size: small;">The weather has turned and true to form, my mind has wandered to autumn fashion. I'm yearning for all things burgundy, particularly accessories like shoes (shooz!) and a large bag for work. </span></small></div>
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<small><span style="font-size: small;">That expensive fluffy clutch bag is just for fun. I'd never spend that much on something so frivolous (but I do think it's pretty!).</span></small></div>
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<small><span style="font-size: small;">I already have a pair of garnet earrings, some tear-shaped drops in silver. I also have a burgundy cotton cardigan, a burgundy three-quarter sleeve top and some excellent wine-coloured nail polishes. I think I'd wear some burgandy shoes as a bit of an accent with other colours especially dark blue, grey and black and white patterns. I'd have to avoid green or I'd start to feel like a Christmas decoration gone wrong.</span></small></div>
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<small><span style="font-size: small;">With bags, I tend to buy one or two a year and use them every day until they fall apart or I get sick of them. My current bag is jade green slouchy leather. I'd like something a bit more structured and large enough to carry a small laptop or tablet. (I need to buy the small laptop or tablet too... Maybe for Christmas?!)</span></small></div>
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<small><span style="font-size: small;">Are you getting on board with the wine-themed trend this season? Or are you going into spring and thinking about pastels? Or are you just not that fussed about colour trends? </span></small></div>
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Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-2368117922429591892014-10-04T11:30:00.000+01:002014-10-04T19:52:36.587+01:00Age cannot wither her?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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A couple of comments on my<a href="http://birdybegins.blogspot.co.uk/2014/10/reassess-your-level-of-awesomeness.html" target="_blank"> last post</a> got me thinking... First of the wonderful <a href="http://passagedesperles.blogspot.co.uk/" target="_blank">Duchesse </a>(go and see her blog, it's a delight) commented that,<br />
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I would agree that everyone gets more interesting as they age, as long
as they take pains to keep their habits and activities fresh and out of a
rut. I'd say you</span><span data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.0.$end:0:$0:0"> are accomplishing this nicely!</span></span><span data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.3"><span data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.3.0"><span data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$0:0">"</span></span></span></span></span></div>
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body"><span class="UFICommentBody" data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0"><span data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.3"><span data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.3.0"><span data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$0:0">Excellent words of wisdom! I'll be mulling over this 'facinating woman' idea for some time to come, I think. Trying it on, tweaking it about, seeing if it fits and how I can style it. </span></span></span></span></span></div>
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body"><span class="UFICommentBody" data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0"><span data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.3"><span data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.3.0"><span data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$0:0">I just tried searching the phrase 'facinating woman' and came up with a lot of traditional American homemaker stuff. Ick. Not my idea of fascinating. I'm more in tune with my friend's comment about becoming more interesting as we age by making sure we keep learning and growing. </span></span></span></span></span></div>
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body"><span class="UFICommentBody" data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0"><span data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.3"><span data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.3.0"><span data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$0:0">The Shakespeare quote alluded to in the title is "Age cannot wither her, nor custom stale her infinite variety". My overriding philosophy since moving to England has been 'Try something new'. I wouldn't claim (or want) infinite variety but I have loved stepping out of the old ruts of who I think I am and what I think I do. My younger self wouldn't recognise me in some aspects these days. </span></span></span></span></span></div>
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body"><span class="UFICommentBody" data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0"><span data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.3"><span data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.3.0"><span data-reactid=".28.1:3:1:$comment10152685040621826_10152691326896826:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$0:0">I do recommend a seismic change every so often. I transformed myself around age 15 when I found a group of friends who hadn't known me since I was a baby. Being a new context allowed me to work out who I really was, instead of being stuck with the old expectations and patterns. Now with this move I've been freer to do that again. </span></span></span></span></span></div>
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what? Well, I guess I'll keep working on this fascinating thing and see
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Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-25746341830428712862014-10-01T20:12:00.000+01:002014-12-31T12:29:47.085+00:00Reassess your level of awesomeness<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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The phrase 'reassess your level of awesomeness' popped up in a blog, article or comment somewhere in the last week and it's kind of stuck in my head.<br />
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I've always been ridiculously confident in my level of awesomeness in areas where I've chosen to engage. I do/ did have a trend of not getting involved in something unless I thought I could easily succeed. My favourite ever school report comment was for Physical Education. It went something like "<i>Eleanorjane needs to learn that cynicism is no substitute for effort"</i>. Teachers can't get away with writing stuff like that these days and the world is a poorer place for it!<br />
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I have (very sadly and slowly) realised that I'm probably never going to turn heads with my looks again. I was never a 10 in terms of looks, but I did enjoy dressing up and feeling pretty in my teens and 20s. I can still dress up, but I'll never be as pretty as I was... <br />
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Anyway, I've had a few experiences lately that I have caused me to reassess my level of awesomeness in a couple of other areas.<br />
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Firstly, <a href="http://birdybegins.blogspot.co.uk/2014/04/how-to-sing-like-talented-pop-star.html" target="_blank">singing</a>. There's a local group that meets every couple of weeks to jam. We get a set list and I do a bit of practise to make sure that I have some idea of how the songs go. I was excited about last week because one of the songs was 'Rolling in the Deep' by Adele. I had a bit of a practise and even recorded myself to make sure I didn't sound too 'classical'. I thought I had it sorted. On the day though, I got flustered, started off wrong and it was just horrible. Something that should be been a showpiece was so painful that everyone quickly decided that the song was off the set-list for good. I did fine on the other songs, but this really knocked my confidence.<br />
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Next, <a href="http://birdybegins.blogspot.co.uk/2014/06/how-to-get-things-done-at-work.html" target="_blank">work</a>. We had a big meeting. I was there as one of a panel with a few other folks. When speaking to the whole group, I was interrupted and my comments clearly didn't go down well. In contrast, an amazing senior woman had them sitting in the palm of her hand. I was in awe of how diplomatically she phrased things, how she made small concessions seem like big concessions and managed the whole thing. I wasn't the only one who was impressed as the room went quiet whenever she opened her mouth. I know it's not fair to compare myself to someone with 20 years more experience than me, but still... <br />
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So, I'm a bit down tonight. Maybe this dose of humility will be good for me. Or maybe I'll bounce back to my normal optimistic self. We'll see.Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-31647504697290666142014-09-27T07:00:00.000+01:002014-12-31T12:35:18.573+00:00The Cotswolds - death by tearooms!<br />
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normal reaction (the area is very popular with tourists, particularly
with Shakespeare fans going to Stratford on Avon) but there's something
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Recently my lovely husband wanted to go on a day trip. I'd had a visit to Hidecot recommended as it's a famous garden and fairly local to Bristol.<br />
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In the morning we fluffed around getting ready, eating breakfast etc. then eventually set off driving up the M4. Sadly by the time we'd stopped for a quick lunch and wended our way through the country lanes of Gloucestershire, it was heading on for 3:30pm.<br />
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We reluctantly decided it was too late to do the garden justice so instead we stopped in a market town called Chipping Campden in the area known as the Cotswolds for afternoon tea.<br />
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Why did the Cotswolds make me ever so slightly nauseated? Well, in these pretty little towns, every car is a new BMW, Range Rover, Audi etc. The houses are all of the same golden stone and piled close on top of each other with roses and hollyhocks around the doors. Houses have names, not numbers and most of them are hundreds of years old. There are dozens of tearooms, a couple of antique stores, maybe an art gallery and a few discreetly signposted useful shops. There's always a stunning church which shows that this village or market town has been rich for centuries. I just find it all a bit much - like eating too much clotted cream on too many scones. Have a look at the pics of a little town called <a href="http://www.broadway-cotswolds.co.uk/index.html" target="_blank">Broadway</a> to see what I mean...<br />
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I'm not that familiar with the Cotswolds, but I have driven all over the South-West. Even the prettiest towns in these counties like Dorset and Wiltshire (Marlborough, for example) seem more lived in by normal people than these Cotswold towns. <br />
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So, after a very nice but rather overpriced cherry bakewell slice and coffee in a twee little tea-room, we drove back to good old Bristol.<br />
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We will try again to see the gardens at Hidecot and we will also trot up and see Sudely Castle as I've heard good things about that too. Don't fret, we haven't entirely shaken the dust of the Cotswolds off our shoes, but still the place does kind of bring me out in hives... Am I just being odd here?Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-62436938314953290602014-09-25T21:20:00.000+01:002014-09-25T21:20:13.965+01:00The great top dilemma<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">
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<small> <span style="font-size: small;">How difficult is it to find useful tops? Arrghghgh! (That's the sound of me tearing my hair out.)</span></small></div>
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<small><span style="font-size: small;">Once again I'm in that familiar place of wailing, "I've got nothing to wear!" each morning before work. </span></small><small><span style="font-size: small;">The weather is so changeable at the moment I need
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<small><span style="font-size: small;">In terms of early autumn 'bottoms' I have two pairs of dark blue trousers (one cobalt and black pattern, the other royal blue jacquard), a pair of jade green trousers, beige chinos and the trusty workhorse black pair (these are a heavy patterned fabric with a slight jodhpur cut so a bit more interesting). I also have a black and white check A-line skirt. I'm not wearing as many skirts as usual 'cos I want to avoid tights as long as possible.</span></small></div>
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<small><span style="font-size: small;">Anyway, I'm sorted for bottoms but the top situation is driving me to distraction. I tried on eight tops (EIGHT) in a shop the other day in order to find one that I liked and that fit nicely (it was a pastel floral number nothing like the one pictured above). </span></small></div>
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<small><span style="font-size: small;">I did get some relief on a trip to <a href="http://www.oasis-stores.com/?lng=en&ctry=GB&" target="_blank">Oasis</a> as they had dozens of different versions of the roll up sleeve shirts shown above. These fit the bill of being non-iron, machine washable and appropriate for early autumn. They're not cheap (by my standards) but I snapped up the rather translucent black one and the jade green one (brighter than it looks in the pic). I've only had them a week and they've been worn twice each so safe to say they were a good buy!</span></small></div>
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<small><span style="font-size: small;">The best thing is that they'll be useful when it gets colder with a warm singlet underneath and a wool cardigan on top. </span></small></div>
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<small><span style="font-size: small;">I think I could do with a few more work tops (as my black and white patterned blouse is on its last legs) so wish me luck in the search! </span> </small></div>
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Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-9538461688171816292014-09-13T11:16:00.000+01:002014-09-26T09:35:22.255+01:00Grey weather - grey outfits<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">
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<span style="font-size: small;">Grey is in this autumn (this phrase reminds me of my mother asking me every season what the 'in' colours were). This is kind of a shame as I love grey and what is 'in' with soon enough be 'out'. I'm quite happy wearing colours that aren't fashionable, but it's not so cool wearing something that used to be fashionable a year or two ago... anyway, I'll cross that bridge when I come to it. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">I have the <a href="http://www.gap.co.uk/browse/product.do?pid=000988931001&vid=1&preferredLocale=en_GB&kwid=1&sem=false&sdReferer=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.co.uk%2Furl%3Fsa%3Dt%26rct%3Dj%26q%3D%26esrc%3Ds%26source%3Dweb%26cd%3D7%26ved%3D0CEIQFjAG%26url%3Dhttp%253A%252F%252Fwww.gap.co.uk%252Fproducts%252F1969-floral-always-skinny-jeans-P000988931.jsp%26ei%3DWxYUVN2zGobD7Aa6-YGYBw%26usg%3DAFQjCNHGKsxDFc8EHVAG-R3Qva17RnRzdA%26sig2%3D6kPwsLpErp0fsaNBwbVjAw%26bvm%3Dbv.75097201%2Cd.ZGU" target="_blank">Gap jeans</a> pictured above and I love them a lot. They've got a subtle floral pattern and they're generously sized but flatteringly cut. I also have a similar grey cashmere cardigan which I got on sale from M & S, although mine is from the old lady range so it needs careful styling to look current.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">I really like wearing tone on tone but I tend to add a few bits to break up the uniform colour. Smallish black and white patterns (like the snow leopard scarf) read as grey from a distance, but provide a bit of visual texture. Black provides a bit of contrast and the patent flats give another texture to the outfit. I've got <a href="http://www.oasis-stores.com/flat-patent-pumps/flat-shoes/oasis/fcp-product/6550008601" target="_blank">these ones</a> from Oasis - they were cheap and I think they have a bit of an Audrey Hepburn feel. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">I also like white with grey to lighten things up and of course silver goes beautifully with grey. I also love how the green animal print shoes are a bit quirky but tone in nicely with the rest of the reasonably subdued outfit. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">I'd wear outfits similar to the ones above out on the weekend, shopping or doing whatever in town. If fact, I think I will today! </span></div>
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Eleanorjanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15458995916551328770noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6314428188783404151.post-33064913106053695572014-09-09T16:53:00.000+01:002014-09-09T16:53:00.090+01:00How to spend two weeks in New ZealandI've just been asked for advice by a friend who's taking three weeks in the South Island of New Zealand. I explained that actually, I've only ever been there twice so I'm really not an expert, but there are lovely things in the North Island to see...<br />
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It's not the first time I've been asked for tips by people taking a trip to New Zealand, so I thought I'd share my suggestions.<br />
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1) If coming from Europe, spend a night or two in Singapore as a stopover. I've raved about Singapore before in <a href="http://birdybegins.blogspot.co.uk/2014/03/the-best-things-to-do-in-singapore.html" target="_blank">this post</a>, so I won't go on here. <br />
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2) You will probably fly in and out of Auckland so here are <a href="http://birdybegins.blogspot.co.uk/2014/03/aucklands-redeeming-features.html" target="_blank">some ideas</a> about what to do with a few days in Auckland (Hint - hire a car and avoid the central city 'cos it's crap). <br />
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3) Depending on how long you've got, you can drive up north to Kerikeri and the Bay of Islands via some of the most stunning beaches in the world in Northland. You can even go all the way up to the top at Cape Reinga and see the Tasman Sea and the Pacific Ocean meeting up in a visible wave.<br />
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4) Then drive down to Rotorua and Taupo for huge lakes, trout fishing, adventure tourism, Maori culture shows, seeing kiwi and possibly patting baby lions in the animal parks and most importantly, thermal hot pools! There is a hot pool you can sit in and look out over Lake Rotorua - gorgeous, especially when the weather's a bit cooler. <br />
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6) Next, drive down to Wellington and stay somewhere central. Soak up the atmosphere, the cafes, the art scene, the harbour. Go to the <a href="http://www.visitzealandia.com/" target="_blank">Zealandia </a>bird sanctuary.<br />
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